Life is all about choices, big and small. The decisions you make now will have resonating effects down the road, resulting in a version of your life that may have been vastly different from what you visualized originally. It all comes down to the fact that life is what you make of it. The choices that distinguish the ordinary from the extraordinary are completely in your hands.
Recognizing that your choices will have an impact on your overall existence gives you the power to shape and mold your life into whatever you want it to be. You really have the power to make your dreams come true. You first have to accept that you are in control and subsequently, that any product of your decisions, whether they resulted in failure or success, is your own doing. Though it may be frightening to be in the driver’s seat, it also opens up endless possibilities to live the life you’ve been dreaming of.
Grab hold of the reins, conquer your fear of the unknown and take command of your decisions. It’ll give you the ability to make coherent choices that will positively impact your future. Check out 9 life choices that are completely up to you here:
Regardless of who you are, you’ve probably had a bad day at least once in your life. If you are like most of us, that bad day probably rears its ugly head from time to time, often with absolutely no warning beforehand. It comes out of nowhere and hits you like a bag full of bricks. Without the necessary strength, it can be pretty tough to pull through completely unscathed. And that’s where the problem lies. If you let a bad day get to you – really get to you – it can have resonating effects hours, days or weeks later. That’s why you want to make sure that you take steps as soon as possible to efficiently combat bad days as they are happening.
Sometimes a bad day can be caused by one big event that has had a serious negative impact on your outlook. But, more often than not, a bad day is caused by a bunch of little annoying or negative events that happen in succession of each other. Those little things may have not bothered you on a normal day, but, combined together, they slowly develop into one of those telltale bad days. It’s how you handle that one big event or bunch of little things that really dictates how your days will end up. It’s all up to you.
Don’t worry – you aren’t totally helpless. Bad days happen. Take control. Leave negativity behind and focus on all of the good. What should you do when you all of the sudden seem to be facing what looks to be a pretty bad day? These 5 simple tips will help you overcome any bad day:
Life is a maze of confusing decisions, sharps turns and sudden drop offs. You truly never know what is going to come at you next. One minute you can believe you are headed in one direction, with that same plan completely thrown off course the next. That’s the beauty of it – you never know what is going to happen in a minute, hour, day, week or year. All that is certain is this very moment and your own capabilities to successfully complete the trek. It’s all about you and your skills.
Some people seem naturally armed with the tools and knowledge necessary to traverse the toughest terrain life has to offer, while others can barely get through today. What sets these two distinct groups of people apart? The answer lies in their ability to properly deal with both everyday happenings and unusual occurrences. It’s all about the tools they have in their arsenal that give them the right level confidence and ability. Combine all of those things together and you have the recipe to conquer whatever you want.
Successfully moving through life is really all about your abilities – the tools you carry with you everywhere. Check out these 8 life tools that will help you grow more than you ever thought was possible:
You’ve hit a point where you just want to give up. You don’t know if it’s even worth it to push forward. You’re exhausted and emotionally drained. Yet, there is still something inside of you that is telling you to keep going. You feel like you shouldn’t give up quite yet.
That’s a lot of weight on your shoulders. You’re kind of stuck between two gigantic decisions that could, theoretically, have a huge impact on your future life. You feel lost and hopeless. You are ready to quit. But before you do, take a moment to think long and hard about that decision.
All too often, we give up on something we’ve been working for in a quick, rash move based on our discomfort and feelings at that very moment. We don’t take into consideration what the potential positive or negative impacts will be in our future – we just want to feel better right now. And that may not really be the best option.
I bet that some of the best things in your life have come from a journey that wasn’t that easy. Think of it this way – some of the most beautiful vistas are located at the end of incredibly difficult trails. When on the trail, you probably want to turn back more times than you can count. But you keep going. You keep moving forward. Because you know the reward at the top will be well worth it.
So next time you feel like quitting, think of your situation through that experience. The reward may far outweigh the pain. Check out these 8 reasons to never give up:
No one sets out in life intending to be average. It somehow just happens.
All of the sudden you get to a certain point and realize that you are living a life that you never wanted. You once dreamed of leading an existence that was completely out of the ordinary, the type that intrigues people while instilling a deep sense of envy. Yet you’re still here. You expected to be traveling the world, living in a foreign country and dabbling in a variety of business opportunities. Meanwhile, you are still stuck in that cubicle, punching the clock and dreading waking up the next day. What happened and where did things go wrong?
Acceptance is the root cause of an average life. There is no way around it.
You work hard, have goals and want the best out of life, yet it still seems like things just aren’t working out for you. Why is this? It may feel like you are unlucky, but this is most likely due to several contributing factors that, together, cause your ambitions to remain at an unreachable distance.
There is good news – if things don’t seem to be working out, you DO have the ability to change your approach, outlook and actions in order to fulfill your goals. All it takes is the willingness to pinpoint the issues that pertain to your specific situation and the right “can-do” attitude.
Find 9 reasons why things aren’t happening for you here:
Thousands of thoughts stream through our minds every day. They cover any and all subjects, from what you’ll eat and wear today, what the weather is like and what needs to get done to the latest episode of your favorite television show and how exactly they cram all of that information into your tiny smartphone. They can be totally random or completely intentional. Your thoughts are where new ideas are born or where they disappear. Thoughts are how your life is decided.
With all of these concepts, thoughts and ideas moving in and out of our stream of consciousness at any given moment, it’s so ridiculously easy to get caught up in the little ideas and negatives – the things that really aren’t a big deal, but get blown totally out of proportion. No matter how positive or happy we are, we all have thoughts of self-doubt that question ourselves and our abilities. When those thoughts enter your mind, it’s imperative to realize that they shouldn’t be prioritized at the top of your list. They are a natural part of life and progression.
You have to be able to identify these detrimental thoughts and place them at the back of your mind. Encouraging negative thinking leads to a negative life. Giving preference to good thoughts will provide you with a positive life. Welcome the good thoughts and learn to recognize the bad ones. Happiness will follow. Check out these 9 thoughts you should never think: